Category: General concept of life

I am for myself. say it to yourself.

Dear friends if continuously we have measuring tapes, scales or rulers in our hands checking others frequently, Then, well let me clear something! we need improvement!

Are we here to sit and spend time to check out others?! If we have hard time to find happiness, joy and well being within ourselves or see it hard to establish friendship and peace within ourselves, it is wise to know almost nothing would make you happier from outside.

The time you move toward some goal, remember, once you achieved it the feeling of emptiness would get dominant. Wouldn’t this hurt more?

Picture this! I am here to grow my growth! To Fulfil my duties! To be in competition with myself! I must break my own record! Even if we assume we finally got to the point where we broke someones else life record are we the winner?

Self driven or Environment Driven

Self Driven

Today I got to know sometimes I am environment driven

I asked myself what is the other ways

One of them so far came to my head “self driven”

#food_for_thought

A self-motivated person is someone who is driven to succeed and achieve their goals without the need for external encouragement or incentives. Self-motivated individuals are able to set goals for themselves, work towards those goals, and persevere even when faced with challenges or setbacks.

Self-motivation is an important quality for many areas of life, as it allows individuals to take initiative, set and achieve goals, and take responsibility for their own actions. Self-motivated individuals are often able to achieve success in their personal and professional lives, as they are able to pursue their goals with determination and focus.

There are several strategies that can help individuals develop self-motivation, including setting clear and achievable goals, finding ways to stay motivated, and surrounding oneself with supportive and motivated people. It is also important to identify and address any obstacles or challenges that may be preventing an individual from being self-motivated.

Environment Driven

External encouragement refers to support, encouragement, or motivation that comes from outside of an individual, rather than from within. This can include things like praise or recognition from others, rewards or incentives, or simply having someone else offer words of encouragement or support.

External encouragement can be helpful in certain situations, as it can provide individuals with a sense of validation or recognition for their efforts. It can also serve as a motivator, helping individuals to stay focused and motivated in the face of challenges or setbacks.

However, it is important for individuals to also be able to find internal motivation and to be self-motivated. This means that they are able to set and work towards their own goals without the need for external encouragement or incentives.

Reasons

Reasons: we are reasons of ourselves, I can be reason of others too. Me with help of others can be reasons of other beings. We can Create. We can move things and enjoy. We can be reason of others happiness. I can bring to life the idea of other beings in my head.

Yes, it is true that our actions and choices can have an impact on the happiness and well-being of others. When we act with kindness and compassion, we can bring joy and positivity to the lives of those around us. On the other hand, our actions can also have a negative impact on others if we are thoughtless or harmful in our words or actions.

There are many ways that we can be a source of happiness for others, such as:

• Showing genuine care and concern for others
• Offering help and support when needed
• Being a good listener and providing emotional support
• Doing small acts of kindness, such as bringing someone a gift or doing a favor for them
• Being positive and optimistic, and helping others to see the good in situations
• Celebrating the accomplishments and milestones of others

By being mindful of the ways in which our actions can affect others, we can strive to be a positive influence in the world and bring happiness to those around us.

Love can project into 3D (3 dimensional world)

Today I was thinking about the previous post of mine here about the love in higher dimensions. This is the art of human beings to project the love into 3D and time. Time can play crucial role in this projection.

How long for what price are you willing to be persistent to love consistently?

Like “To be kind is a feature”, To love is a feature too, it is well practiced character within “to love”.

Ah, my shoulders 🙂

I’m not parenting yet.

Yet I think the fact to let the next generation feel a “good morning” and the “bright day”, it is quite a bit challenging.

How to prepare everything in advance to let their youth energy of days flow through these well prepared structures.

Maybe they need to be alone for some time to feel the “good morning”

Certainly the life holds its up and downs throughout time and the youth are exposed to time anyway.

Everything on its timeline

It really takes time and energy to make me understand that everything is good on its own time in my life

Why to ask and be in hurry for things that yet their time didn’t arrive yet.

Nature is the best consultant “The lake house”

It is true that some things in life take time, and that we cannot always control when or how things happen. However, it is also important to remember that we have the power to influence and shape our own lives through our actions and choices. While we cannot control everything that happens to us, we can take steps to pursue our goals and work towards the things we want in life.

It is also important to recognize that sometimes waiting for something to happen can be challenging, and it can be easy to become discouraged or lose motivation. In these situations, it can be helpful to focus on the things that we can control, such as our attitudes and behaviors, and to find ways to stay positive and motivated.

Ultimately, it is important to have patience and to trust that everything will come to us in its own time, while also taking action and making the most of the opportunities that come our way.

Timing

Sometimes it’s you wanting things. Then there you go you going to face slow downs and then you ask yourself why

Sometimes you have to wait and move with lower pace, if you really want it you should be a strong enough to be patient for it

To be pleasant enough

To enter each other’s world is people s daily routine.

The question for us is how pleasantly we prepared ourselves to be explored.

The kingdom which you are the king of it, how well it is groomed?!

How much are you ready to host others?

To understand and greet them

Read “The Art of Influence: Persuading Others Begins With You” by Chris Widener. Link here

He clearly mentions in the book about the art of fishing not hunting. to be the person of undivided integrity. To Put people’s interest before your interest and to spend well for education of others when you receive well.

Here are some key points from the book:

• Influence is the ability to affect the thoughts, feelings, and actions of others.
• To be influential, you must first have a clear understanding of your own values, beliefs, and goals, and be confident in your ability to achieve them.
• To persuade others, you must be able to clearly communicate your ideas and present them in a compelling manner.
• To be effective at influencing others, you must be able to connect with them on an emotional level and build trust and rapport.
• Empathy and understanding are key to building successful relationships and persuading others.
• To be a successful influencer, you must be willing to listen to others and be open to their ideas and perspectives.
• To persuade others, you must be able to clearly communicate the benefits of your ideas and how they can help achieve the other person’s goals.